Being a feminine girl is not about suffering, it’s about service.
Being a feminine girl is not about humiliation, it’s about humility.
Being a feminine girl is not about pain, it’s about being present.
Being a feminine girl is not about being used, it’s about being of use.
Being a feminine girl is not about control, it’s about letting go.
Being a feminine girl is not about your desires, it about giving to others.
Being a feminine girl is not about abuse, it’s about acceptance.
Being a feminine girl is not about proving anything, it’s about being yourself.
Being a feminine girl is not about punishment, it’s about discipline.
Being a feminine girl is not about submission, it’s about obedience.
Being a feminine girl is not about being unable to escape, it’s about being committed.
Being a feminine girl is not about sex, it’s about love.
Being a feminine girl is not about pleasure, it’s about happiness.
-adapted from “slavery is not …” - author unknown





